February 26, 2009

Behind every good blogger is a patient husband

I don’t talk enough about my husband here. And I really should. We’ve been married for 8 years and he still makes me feel like the luckiest girl alive.

Carlos in Bahia

Isn’t he handsome? And you wouldn’t believe his age. He’s ten years older than me, and looks 5 years younger. I sometimes wonder if he didn’t make a pact with the devil. He doesn’t have a single gray hair and his skin is totally smooth. A lot of it I think comes from his attitude. Even for a Brazilian he’s remarkably easy-going. His personality is the total opposite of my fiery hot-headness. He rarely gets stressed out or angry and somehow manages to take everything in stride, with a smile and a positive attitude.

He’s a musician and a composer. A very good one. He really should have 100x the recognition that he does. He’s far too modest and could just a strong dash of presumptive audacity. He’s just been quietly plugging away for years, which has earned him a lot of respect among the people who do know his work. But I think this might be a very good year for him. I don’t know why I think that… just a hunch.

Carlos at Promusica

I haven’t figured out how to post a music clip so please go listen to him here, you won’t regret it:

http://www.myspace.com/carloshenriquepereira

People are often surprised when I tell them that I’m married to a Brazilian musician and that he isn’t a sambista or a bossa nova player. When he was 18, he moved to Paris with his best friend Max, a flautist. They had a huge repertory of their own experimental jazz compositions worked out. They had planned to take Europe by storm. But whenever anyone heard that they were Brazilian, they were expected to play the "Girl from Ipanema." They had to quickly learn a traditional Brazilian repertory just to get enough gigs to support themselves.

Here’s a picture of him from the 80’s taken sometime around those Paris days. One of his wedding vows was that he would never grow his hair like that again.
(Okay it wasn’t really, but it should have been.)

Bad 80's Hair, Good Music


I once heard the joke:

What’s the difference between a jazz musician and a pizza?

A pizza feeds the family.


Funny, in a sad sort of way. But fortunately for me, far from the truth. Other than being a loving husband and a wonderful musician, he’s also a good provider. For the last 20 years of his life he’s worked as a producer/engineer. He owned a recording studio for 14 years in Brooklyn where he built a great reputation and worked with all sorts of big named musicians.

When we moved, he brought the studio with him (a nerve racking adventure, fraught with potential disasters – we shipped a ton of sensitive equipment and a grand piano, rolled on its side, in a metal container, across the equator!) He has since been building a steady reputation and now has people coming in from São Paulo and Rio to record with him. Recently he got a recording that was done in one of the most expensive studios in Rio. But the studio botched the mix so badly the client thought the project was lost. Someone suggested my husband and in a week he was able to re-mix it into a wonderful record. The client was stunned – who is this guy and what is he doing out there in Minas?

You can click here: Nave Studio for more info on the studio. If you know any musicians, there isn’t a better deal south of the Equator.

So that’s all I have to say for now. Just a gratuitous plug from the luckiest girl in the world --- and one more photo to thoroughly embarrass him.


Carlinhos

6 comments:

Rachel said...

that's such a great story! i'm definitely going to check out his music. i'm also interested in the whole how you met story now! bjos

Ballerina Girl said...

your posts are great...I love this one especially about your husband. this is so true of me also...he is very patient with me, my blog time, and my fieryness!
thanks for visiting my blog...if ever in my neck of the woods, let me know!
BG
ps-one of these days we hope to make it to minas...looks wonderful!

Corinne said...

"who is this guy and what is he doing in Minas" - had to laugh, what a typical carioca/paulista thing to say, since anything worth anything has to be located ONLY in RJ or SP.

Mrs. S said...

Aww :) I loved this story! It is my first run in with finding out about Carlos! And I did go to the myspace page and the music is wonderful!!

And Sidnei is incredibly patient as well...and I am also hot headed...and a little of a control freak. Thank goodness, he laughs a lot! :)

lovelydharma said...

Rachael: well, the story of how we met is unfortunately not so interesting. But perhaps I could make it a little scandalous!

Corrine: I know! It's like Rio and SP are the LA and New York of Brazil, and the rest of us are just the fly-over states!

BG & Mrs. S! We'll have to get you both to Minas someday!

GingerV said...

very nice entry. I played the 'my space' then sent it on to Camillo to listen to, I imagine we will end up with several cd. thank god not more samba which we play only for breakfast 'wake up' music.